"We can lose our true selves. We can forget who we are. We start to just follow— a word that has taken on a whole new meaning in this age of social media. We follow those we admire, sometimes for all the right reasons and sometimes for all the wrong reasons. We follow down a path of who we think we need to be in order to fit in or get into the Greek house we think we want or show we are better than someone else in our study group or put on a good face for Instagram when we're really feeling lonely in this new place" —Tilly Shames, Hillel executive director at the University of Michigan